Eloping in Style: California’s Most Romantic Boutique Hotels for Intimate Weddings
Ready to run off together? From windswept coastal cliffs to sun-drenched vineyards and redwood retreats, California’s boutique hotels offer intimate, effortlessly stylish settings for tying the knot. Whether you’re planning a barefoot beach ceremony or a small garden gathering, these handpicked properties deliver charm, character, and curated elopement experiences to match your love story.
Inn at Occidental
Tucked among majestic redwoods in the historic Sonoma County village of Occidental, the Inn at Occidental is a dreamy retreat for an elopement. The inn’s romantic outdoor spaces bloom with garden flowers and fountains, perfect for exchanging vows privately or with a close circle of loved ones. An all-inclusive elopement package includes an officiant, photographer, floral design, live music, a cake, and a charcuterie board paired with Sonoma wines. Afterward, unwind in a luxurious guest room with a fireplace and spa tub.
Sand Rock Farm
Secluded amid the sun-dappled forest of a historic country estate, Sand Rock Farm is a premier choice for private elopements in Santa Cruz County. Once the site of the region’s first winery, the lovingly restored property now welcomes couples to say “I do” beneath the redwoods and toast in the barrel aging cellar or rustic carriage barn. Packages—available for two-person ceremonies or gatherings of up to 40 guests—include wedding coordination and exclusive use of the venue.
Inn at the Opera
Just two blocks from the iconic San Francisco City Hall, the European-inspired Inn at the Opera is a refined and romantic hideaway for eloping in the city. Built in the 1920s to house visiting opera stars, the hotel still hums with artistic spirit and old-world glamour. The staff specializes in tailoring each stay with celebratory amenities and thoughtful touches, making every couple feel like the stars of their own love story. Hayes Valley and the city’s performing arts venues are just steps away.
Timber Cove Resort
Set against the wild beauty of the Sonoma Coast, Timber Cove Resort is a stunning elopement destination. With 26 acres of native vegetation and dramatic ocean views, the resort offers a variety of breathtaking ceremony spots. For elopements with up to 10 guests, couples can follow their vows with an elegant dinner in the private Coast Commune room—complete with a live-edge redwood table, fireplace, and panoramic windows framing the sea and sunset.
Stanford Inn by the Sea
Overlooking the Pacific on the Mendocino Coast, Stanford Inn by the Sea is a one-of-a-kind, 100% plant-based resort and an inspiring setting for saying “I do.” Two elopement packages include a private ceremony by Rev. Jeff Stanford and photography. The enhanced option adds in-room champagne and a three-course dinner at the inn’s acclaimed restaurant. Packages are priced from $675, excluding accommodations.
The Genevieve
Nestled in the heart of Santa Ynez wine country, The Genevieve is a storybook hideaway for couples craving romance and seclusion. The hotel’s outdoor spaces exude secret garden charm with vine-draped archways and sunlit corners. Inside, the historic carriage house glows with exposed beams and twinkle lights—ideal for a first dance or cozy celebration. Guest rooms are equally dreamy, some featuring jetted tubs and private balconies for post-vow relaxation.
Aurora Hotel
Just a short boat ride from Southern California’s mainland, the romance of Catalina Island feels a world away—and the Aurora Hotel adds extra magic for eloping couples. Its Romance Package includes a flower bouquet, bottle of wine, couples massage, round-trip boat transportation, and taxi service from the Avalon dock. Priced from $580, excluding accommodations, this add-on makes the planning seamless. Celebrate with a toast on the hotel’s rooftop deck overlooking the harbor.
Brewery Gulch Inn & Spa
An intimate Mendocino Coast escape embraced by ocean waves and towering trees, Brewery Gulch Inn & Spa feels tailor-made for elopements. Two thoughtfully designed packages simplify the experience: the Simply Beautiful package is just for two, while the Deluxe version includes romantic extras and welcomes up to four guests. Both include an intimate ceremony by a resident celebrant, floral designs, and photography. A two-night minimum stay is required.
Drift Santa Barbara
For couples looking to elope in style, Drift Santa Barbara offers a fresh take on the traditional wedding venue. Set along downtown’s vibrant State Street, this modern boutique hotel blends coastal cool with minimalist design. The hotel’s new 2,200-square-foot indoor-outdoor space provides a blank canvas for bespoke celebrations. It’s also just steps from the iconic Santa Barbara Courthouse—perfect for couples planning a civic ceremony. Special packages make it easy to personalize your day.
Fess Parker Wine Country Inn
Tucked in the heart of Los Olivos, Fess Parker Wine Country Inn offers a refined yet relaxed setting for an intimate ceremony. The beautifully landscaped garden and terrace provide a naturally elegant backdrop, while the on-site restaurant, Nella Kitchen & Bar, serves up seasonal cuisine with wine country flair. With just 19 rooms, the inn feels like a private escape designed for romance.
Elk Cove Inn & Spa
Perched high above the Mendocino Coast, Elk Cove Inn & Spa is a windswept wonderland of cypress trees, lush gardens, and panoramic ocean views. Couples can exchange vows in the oceanfront gazebo, open-air amphitheater, or fireside indoors. The inn’s elopement packages are thoughtfully curated and include a licensed officiant, a custom bouquet and boutonniere, and a cake for two—everything you need for an unforgettable celebration.
Petit Soleil
Bringing a French countryside flair to San Luis Obispo, Petit Soleil charms with its cobblestone courtyards and Provençal details. Ideal for a just-for-two wedding or an intimate gathering, couples can rent the courtyard—or even the entire inn. Curated cocktails and custom catering elevate the occasion, while in-room extras like fresh-cut flowers and champagne add even more romance.
The Inn at Newport Ranch
Stretching across 2,200 acres of the rugged Mendocino Coast, The Inn at Newport Ranch offers the ultimate in secluded romance. With windswept bluffs and woodsy trails, it’s a magical backdrop for elopements. The midweek-only package for two includes everything from an officiant and photographer to florals, sparkling wine, and a custom cake. Accommodations are extra, and restrictions apply.
Seal Cove Inn
Tucked on a bluff above Half Moon Bay, Seal Cove Inn is a European-inspired estate wrapped in gardens and cypress trees. A private path leads to the beach and Fitzgerald Marine Reserve. The Elopement Package—crafted just for two—includes an officiant, bouquet, photographer, and a two-night stay in the luxurious Cypress Grove Suite, complete with a fireplace and spa tub.
De La Vina Inn
Just steps from downtown Santa Barbara’s State Street, De La Vina Inn blends historic Craftsman charm with private, tranquil gardens. Couples looking for an intimate ceremony can explore buyout options or tailored service packages. The Penthouse Suite is a standout with its private deck, spacious layout, and spa-inspired bathroom—perfect for newlywed indulgence.
Gingerbread Mansion Inn
In Ferndale, Gingerbread Mansion Inn is a romantic Victorian landmark that transports guests to a bygone era. The Lost Coast Elopement Package is designed for just two and includes a ceremony in the English garden or a parlor, two witnesses, champagne or wine, and attentive day-of assistance—plus countless romantic extras to complete the storybook setting.
Alisal Ranch
Set on 10,500 acres in Santa Barbara wine country, Alisal Ranch is a luxe Western retreat offering tailored elopement experiences. Packages can accommodate as few as three to five guests and often include a two-night stay for midweek ceremonies. Between horseback rides, golf, spa treatments, and starlit dinners, the ranch transforms elopements into full-fledged romantic escapes.
Old Monterey Inn
An elegant Tudor-style escape, Old Monterey Inn exudes Old World charm with an English cottage feel and captivating gardens. The all-inclusive Elopement Package, priced from $4,000 through October, includes two nights’ accommodations, exclusive use of the gardens, a ceremony with coordination, champagne, and more. It’s perfect for just the two of you—or up to four guests.
Eden Vale Inn
In the Sierra foothills near Placerville, Eden Vale Inn is a hidden romantic retreat with an intimate wedding pavilion and a beautiful pond. Packages for up to 14 guests start at $699 and cover every detail for a serene, love-filled day. The inn offers just seven rooms, all of which feature fireplaces, romantic lighting, and private patios with outdoor soaking tubs for unwinding after your “I dos.”
Inn at Zaca Creek
Reminiscent of a 17th-century English estate, the Inn at Zaca Creek offers Old World romance in Santa Barbara wine country. Couples can choose ceremony sites near the lagoon pool or overlooking the rolling hills of Santa Ynez Valley. An on-site coordinator helps ensure each elopement is as effortless as it is enchanting.
MacCallum House
In the heart of Mendocino village, the storied MacCallum House is steeped in romantic history. The builder gifted the Victorian mansion to his daughter for her wedding in the 1800s. The inn’s experienced team provides complete wedding coordination and decadent meals from the onsite restaurant. End your day in the honeymoon suite with its ocean views and claw-foot tub.
Hotel Cerro
Chic and contemporary, Hotel Cerro in downtown San Luis Obispo offers multiple stylish spaces to say “I do”—including the breezy Fig Veranda and rooftop deck with mountain views. Couples benefit from the hotel’s in-house wedding specialists and elevated touches that make even the smallest ceremony feel personalized and memorable.
Lavender Inn
In Ojai, the Lavender Inn is a romantic retreat between Los Angeles and Santa Barbara. Its colorful gardens, oak trees, and tranquil pond offer serene ceremony spots for tying the knot. Elopement packages are available, and the inn’s coordinator can help plan your perfect day. The Provence Cottage—with a private yard and fireplace—is a honeymoon dream.
Courtwood Inn
Perched on a five-acre hilltop above Murphys, Courtwood Inn is a cedar log bed and breakfast offering stunning views from every room. It’s also a Gold Country gem for private elopements. The Mixed Doubles Champs package, starting at $2,825 through October, includes a two-night stay, officiant, photographer, bouquet and boutonniere, sparkling toast, wedding cake, and keepsake glasses to commemorate the day.
Inn at Opolo
The Inn at Opolo offers the ultimate in seclusion among the rolling hills and vineyards of Paso Robles. A grassy hilltop site offers a romantic spot for exchanging vows with panoramic views of wine country. With just three luxurious rooms and acres to explore, it’s an ideal destination for couples seeking solitude. Add the Celebration Package to your stay for champagne, a bouquet, and a personal-size cake.
Dunbar House Inn
Located in the historic gold rush town of Murphys, the Dunbar House Inn is an Italianate-style estate offering beautiful outdoor garden spaces for exchanging vows. The inn’s midweek Elopement Package, starting at $3,995, includes two nights’ accommodations, a garden ceremony with coordination, a small cake, sparkling wine, and more—for the couple and up to 10 guests.
Churchill Manor
Straight from the pages of a romance novel, Churchill Manor is a grand 1889 mansion in Napa offering timeless elegance. The Simply Elegant Elopement Package includes a two-night stay, ceremony in the gardens or on the veranda, bouquet and boutonniere, cake, bubbly, and minister. Everything is designed for an effortlessly refined celebration.
McCaffrey House Bed & Breakfast Inn
Majestic cedars and pines stand witness to private “I dos” at the McCaffrey House Bed & Breakfast Inn in Twain Harte. The romantic mountain lodge offers three wedding packages, including the Wedding and Honeymoon bundle designed for elopements. Priced from $1,595, the package includes a ceremony, a cake, a champagne toast, and two nights’ accommodations.
The Gables Wine Country Inn
Located in the heart of Sonoma County, The Gables Wine Country Inn is a historic Gothic Victorian mansion trimmed in romance. The inviting grounds offer several backdrops for tying the knot, including a redwood grove, a historic barn, and a vineyard. The Intimate Family & Friends Wedding Package, priced from $1,500, includes venue use for 90 minutes, an officiant, and seating for up to 15.
Milliken Creek Inn
On the banks of the Napa River, Milliken Creek Inn offers a peaceful garden setting for elopements. The midweek package includes two nights in a luxury suite, a private ceremony with an officiant, a romantic turndown service with sparkling wine, and a gourmet breakfast served anywhere on the property. The package is available Sunday through Thursday.
Mill Rose Inn
The classic Mill Rose Inn bed and breakfast in Half Moon Bay has long been known for its romantic English country garden-style weddings. The meticulously manicured grounds are framed in colorful blooms offering couples an intimate setting for exchanging vows. Elopement packages include full-service planning and accommodations. The Bordeaux Rose Suite—complete with an oversized whirlpool tub—is a favorite among honeymooners.
Nick’s Cove
Tucked into a peaceful cove along Tomales Bay, Nick’s Cove is a soulful setting for an elopement. Vows can be exchanged on a rustic pier, a beach, or from the back of a chartered boat. 14 romantic waterfront and waterview cottages offer cozy luxury—think wood-burning stoves, soaking tubs, and heated floors—with views that make you want to stay forever.
Simpson House Inn
An acre of private gardens and a Victorian estate tucked within Santa Barbara make the Simpson House Inn feel like your own secret sanctuary. All weddings require a full inn buyout for two nights, ensuring complete privacy. The estate includes 15 opulent guest rooms, including four cottages, offering luxury and intimacy for you and your guests.